Boundaries - Isaiah

Long before we left on this trip, each of us chose a word that we wanted to live by and intentionally put into practice throughout the week.  The word I chose was boundaries. 

I originally chose boundaries because I wanted to make my own decisions instead of letting other people's choices influence me. I think I've done that, but I've also realized I've taken it too far. In some ways, I've regressed and gone back to what I like to call my "factory settings"—being shy, staying quiet, and not talking to new people very much.

 

Now, I almost want to do the opposite of my word. I want to break those boundaries. That might sound bad, but I think it would actually be good for me. I want to break away from the unnecessary walls and limits I've put around myself. I want to make more friends, step out of my comfort zone, and maybe even speak tomorrow night at Yea God.

 

I still think boundaries are important, but I've realized there's a difference between healthy boundaries and walls that keep people out. I want to keep the healthy boundaries that help me make wise decisions, while breaking down the ones that keep me from connecting with others and growing.