The end of the Harrisburg mission trip marks my twelfth time taking students to serve with YouthWorks. Each mission trip is the same in that we go to a new community, follow relatively the same schedule, and end up learning a lot about ourselves, God and what it means to follow Him and love others. Each trip though is also very unique. No two sites are the same and each trip seems to have its own unique theme that develops as the week progresses. For the Harrisburg trip one of those themes that makes it unique from the other 11 is the theme of friendship. On past trips we were never the church to branch out and make friends. We usually stuck to ourselves. Sure we were friendly to the other churches, but it didn’t feel like we made real connections with them. That is until this trip.
We were teased with a glimpse of what waited for us, before we ever left Good Shepherd. A lady from church told me she had decided to make something for each of us. She left a bag on my desk with a note saying that she hoped we would be able to make friends on our mission adventure and there was a Clifford pillowcase for each of us. Around the big red dog it said make new friends everyday. I chuckled knowing that the group we were taking were mainly introverts, and that making new friends would be a challenge not just for them but for me. Before the trip Tim had said, “I sure hope you don’t get combined with another church. No offense, but you usually don’t end up enjoying the other adult leaders.” Thanks Tim, but there was in fact a lot of truth to his statement.
We kicked off our trip with site seeing in Philadelphia fondly known as the city of brotherly love- its name taken from the Greek word philos- meaning the love that is expressed between friends and then off to Harrisburg. Literally the minute we walked in the door we were greeted by Maci the site director and honestly the friendliest YouthWorks staff person I have ever met. She immediately asked me to assign our students and leaders to service groups and every group was a combo of two churches- she had done this on purpose. Everyone from Good Shepherd would have to work with students and leaders from other churches.
In the past this has been hit and miss— but not this year. My group was combined with the church from Minnesota and we were tasked with planning a 45 minutes chapel for kids at a Christian theater camp. The group melded seamlessly, we collaborated and planned together as if we had know each other for years, by the end of the first service day our groups had clicked. During down time you would see Good Shepherd students playing cards with other church’s, and practicing the church clap dance.
One student said he had made more friends on this trip in four days, than he had in the past 6 months at school. Students spent time in the evenings running through the hallway laughing and pranking people by knocking on their door and running away. Maci, the site director, went out of her way to spend time talking with students and connecting with them. Andrew got several notes from the Wisconsin kids he served with saying he was the best youth leader they had ever had. Students made friends with kids who weren’t even in their service groups. There was laughter and jokes, and hugs and sad goodbyes as we said farewell to the YouthWorks staff, and the new friends we had made.
One of my favorite parts of these trips is seeing the way God shows up for us. One day our devo was about how trees depend on each other for stability and strength— their roots interconnect and help hold each other together. This week was a truly beautiful picture of God’s church. Yes we were there to serve the community, and to work, but God also gave us a gift. He deepened our relationships with each other, but He also gave us new friends to help make the journey more joyful and fun. There was so much laughter on this trip and students just being free to be kids. We were each rooted in Christ, but we were also rooted together. The cherry on top of this God sighting on friendship woven throughout the trip was that our shower site was at the Friendship YMCA. Just another subtle nod and reminder to the blessing that new and old friends bring into our lives. Stay rooted in Him, stay rooted together.